It’s hot. Days and weeks of heat non-stop – a really extreme summer this year! I try not to take too much work because my head can’t work well. And when I don’t work, my child would come to me and talk. Or she calls me out for a walk (in the evening when the heat reduces a little) – and talks.
She can talk for hours. She talks, and I listen. I know she needs it because she has too many thoughts about lots of things, like:
- Movies, cartoons and TV shows
- Comics and superheros (Batman and Joker – oh no!)
- Evil characters and why people like them
- Gender, its natural and social aspects, stereotypes, and gender queer people
- Families, parents and children, and why she doesn’t want a family in future
- Discrimination of all sorts and why Russians don’t understand it
- What is empathy, and if it’s OK to live without it
- Why people need religion, and what’s good and bad about it
- Time traveling and what time period she would choose if it were possible
- Star Wars
- Computer games
- Robots
Cabbages and kings
… and many others, I just can’t remember right now.
Of course she says that I shouldn’t listen if I don’t want to, and that I can stop her at any moment if I feel it’s enough. And it really happens sometimes when my brain gets overloaded, but mostly it goes fine. Some problems are interesting for me too, and we discuss them together. When she speaks out all her thoughts, she goes to her room and leaves me alone. It’s fine, but… I feel that she needs someone else for a listener except me. That’s why I’m so glad when my nephew comes to visit us sometimes – at least they can discuss computer games and Star Wars!